tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post8310072738121111685..comments2008-02-13T16:05:25.478-07:00Comments on Jack: October 18thDarren and Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04268785102327744035noreply@blogger.comBlogger57125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-16756925257011596842007-11-08T14:50:00.000-07:002007-11-08T14:50:00.000-07:00You probably don't remeber me, but we were in the ...You probably don't remeber me, but we were in the PICU the same time you were, I just wanted to let you know that we still think of you and your sweet little baby, our prayers are with you.<BR/>Hansen FamilyMegan and Alyviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05970248714902896944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-34201979433267063832007-11-08T01:22:00.000-07:002007-11-08T01:22:00.000-07:00Hermano:Encontré tu página hoy porque una de tus a...Hermano:<BR/><BR/>Encontré tu página hoy porque una de tus amigas que dejó un mensaje aquí para ustedes es amiga de una amiga de otra hermana que asiste a mi barrio aquí en Dallas. ¿Confuso, no?<BR/><BR/>Siento mucho la muerte de tu hijo. Tus palabras son muy hermosas, y permanecerán como un tributo al amor y a los convenios eternos.<BR/><BR/>Deseaba compartir un poema contigo pero desgraciadamente no lo encuentro en mi computadora ni recuerdo el título.<BR/><BR/>Yo no tengo la bendición de tener un esposo y, por lo tanto, tampoco la de tener hijos, asi que no pretendo saber cómo se sienten ustedes. Sin embargo, sé lo que es perder a la persona que más he querido en este mundo (mi madre) y verla morir lentamente de demencia y Parkinson's.<BR/><BR/>La cuidé por tres años, y los últimos 5 meses, cuando ya no podía valerse por sí misma, fueron los peores. El peor sentimiento del mundo es ver sufrir a alguien que amamos y saber que uno no puede tomar su lugar.<BR/><BR/>Ella no era miembro de la Iglesia, pero Nuestro Padre Celestial me concedió la gracia de hacer la obra por ella en el Templo y recibir un testimonio de que ella lo aceptó. Esto es un consuelo.<BR/><BR/>Como dice el lema de la Sociedad de Socorro: "El amor nunca deja de ser". Les incluyo el enlace a una página que pienso puede ayudarles.<BR/><BR/>http://www.misschildren.org/index.html<BR/><BR/>Sinceramente,<BR/><BR/><BR/>Bertachattypatrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15928593117804100052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-70836588819922204242007-11-04T18:50:00.000-07:002007-11-04T18:50:00.000-07:00Darren and Sarah,We're so glad that we could come ...Darren and Sarah,<BR/>We're so glad that we could come to the funeral. Jes and I both felt so strengthened being in your presence. You guys are strong and we're really proud to have you guys as such good friends. We both learned a lot from the words spoken at the funeral as well as from the feelings that we received in our hearts. May the Lord bless you as you continue on to the next stages of life.Jared Autreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10650698925719623674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-75993472527380929672007-10-29T13:49:00.000-06:002007-10-29T13:49:00.000-06:00Hi, my name is Amy Aplington. Jenn Pearson is my s...Hi, my name is Amy Aplington. Jenn Pearson is my sister. I just wanted to say that I know your strength has helped Jenn and Justin go through this trial. Thank you. I am sorry to hear about Jack. It's a blessing to know the Plan of Salvation.Luke and Amy Aplingtonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16087384308763537992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-33879324594803963642007-10-29T13:41:00.000-06:002007-10-29T13:41:00.000-06:00We continue to think of you and pray for you.We continue to think of you and pray for you.Emi Edgleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07172375321404612494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-80065599582410106942007-10-28T18:26:00.000-06:002007-10-28T18:26:00.000-06:00I came upon your blog as a friend of Heather Hinck...I came upon your blog as a friend of Heather Hinckley's in NC. I am very touched by sweet Jack's life and all that he accomplished. What an amazing and beautiful little boy! I will be keeping your family in my prayers.Emma and Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07542110849161070177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-42081877690338155202007-10-26T09:16:00.000-06:002007-10-26T09:16:00.000-06:00This is "Aunt Shan. I'm here in Pennsyvlvania visi...This is "Aunt Shan. I'm here in Pennsyvlvania visiting our kids.<BR/>I want you to know how often I think of you two. I was so touched by the funeral services and the courage that you two exhibit.I felt the Spirit.<BR/>Thanks for sharing this time with all of us. We have felt your pain and anguish, but also your immense love andfaith. Jack is so lucky to have you as parents.We love you!<BR/> God Bless...Aunt ShanBekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13748655282984179527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-40548417379470556342007-10-23T10:18:00.000-06:002007-10-23T10:18:00.000-06:00Sarah, I can't help but cry for you, but at the sa...Sarah, I can't help but cry for you, but at the same time be amazed at your incredible strength through this heartbreaking journey. Such a special little guy-- comforted to know a joyous reunion with him awaits you!Jer + Luhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12261488788973684543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-65600419559381693002007-10-23T08:18:00.000-06:002007-10-23T08:18:00.000-06:00you don't know me. i am a sister-in-law of emily h...you don't know me. i am a sister-in-law of emily house. she told us about you and your blog, and we have followed it and shed many tears. i even linked to your blog on my blog. <BR/><BR/>thank you for sharing your family's story. it is a beautiful story. thank you for your strength, faith, and example. how much our heavenly father must love you to send you jack. i am happy for jack that he has "fought the good fight". and we pray for you to have continued peace and comfort.Julie Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01408207374491475942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-56830977320850575492007-10-22T13:34:00.000-06:002007-10-22T13:34:00.000-06:00You don't know me, yet I feel I know you & your sw...You don't know me, yet I feel I know you & your sweet baby Jack. (I came across your blog through Heather & Mike's.) I just wanted you two to know that you've got the world behind you. Family, friends & even strangers. I cried when I read that baby Jack had passed on. Through your sweet blog, you allowed people like me to feel the precious spirit of your little Jack. It came right through the computer! He must be a pretty awesome guy to have touched the lives of so many. Our prayers are with you, the Campbell's-AZAudyCamphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12139386613033714752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-84957796464005212532007-10-21T22:01:00.000-06:002007-10-21T22:01:00.000-06:00Darren & Sarah, You guys are amazing parents. We...Darren & Sarah, <BR/><BR/>You guys are amazing parents. We think Jack was lucky to have you. We love you guys and we're sorry for your loss.<BR/><BR/>Andy & Alex ThomasAlexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08831541616951334427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-80638883706816615082007-10-21T21:09:00.000-06:002007-10-21T21:09:00.000-06:00Darren,I was informed by Jed of the dear precious ...Darren,<BR/>I was informed by Jed of the dear precious events of Jack and his life. I have now spent some time reading through the blog and coming to know Jack. <BR/><BR/>What an amazingly hard, yet stretching experience for you and Sarah. I was always impressed with your spiritutal strength and positive attitude. Now I see that has sustained you again. Sarah, I have not met you, but I can only imagine what an amazing woman you are to compliment Darren. <BR/><BR/>May the Lord continue to sustain you both and your families. Thank you for sharing this experience with those who love you, and have come to love Jack. The gospel plan is real, true, merciful, eternal, and beautiful. We are so blessed to have this knowledge to sustain us through the difficult times and allow us to have vision of eternal families. <BR/><BR/>Monica Murdock<BR/>Sea Trek Mate 2001Monica Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02252810212008623797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-67300834127922634772007-10-21T17:40:00.000-06:002007-10-21T17:40:00.000-06:00Querido Darren,Me emociona saber que tantas person...Querido Darren,<BR/>Me emociona saber que tantas personas estuvieron con ustedes durante la ceremonia para celebrar la vida de Jack. Me hubiese gustado estar presente para poder propiamente estrechar tu mano y darle un abrazo a Sarita. Me hace sentir tan humilde y agradecida el haberos acompanado desde que comensaste a contarlos algunos detalles de la vida de tu bello bebe. No se por que aun visito este sitio dia a dia mas si tu tambien vienes aqui y le haces saber a Sara de los comentarios, agrega por favor que mi corazon y oraciones estan con ella. Me cuesta partir. Un abrazo fuerte mi hermano!!Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00661196445901158833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-68478784620550445822007-10-21T16:57:00.000-06:002007-10-21T16:57:00.000-06:00I know you probably don't know me. I was a travel...I know you probably don't know me. I was a traveller at LDS L&D until last week and through the staff there and the blog, I came to follow Jack and your experiences. I have been trying to find the blog since I got back home and finally found it a few minutes ago; just to see what happened. I know words can't help you. But I am praying for you just as I know so many other people are. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful little boy with all of us. God bless all of you! JeannineJeanninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02770378024836090617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-54012939043226188752007-10-21T16:28:00.000-06:002007-10-21T16:28:00.000-06:00we are far in miles but have felt close to you and...we are far in miles but have felt close to you and all of the roger dudley family during this time of trial and faith building experiences. we look forward to meeting your sweet son in heaven as we see your sweet reunion. we love you.<BR/><BR/>joel & laura mcintyrejoel and laura michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04282796151972943849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-43017701713847024912007-10-21T16:23:00.000-06:002007-10-21T16:23:00.000-06:00Sarah, My thoughts and prayers have been with you...Sarah, My thoughts and prayers have been with you last few months. What a special baby Jack is - to be with Heavenly Father again. I am so sad for your loss. What a difficult trial.<BR/>Love, NancyNancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10194523796165974458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-5686730134902217332007-10-21T10:20:00.000-06:002007-10-21T10:20:00.000-06:00Sir Jack-how sweet your celebration of life, the p...Sir Jack-how sweet your celebration of life, the peace of heart and soul you shared. I am for ever grateful for your life. Now with the bright morning sun of this day, you not only taught me to pray for the "will of the Father" to be done, but now in greater faith I can accept the results of His will. During the last nearly nine weeks I joined many seeking a miracle for you, and indeed with a refreshed perspective this morning, your life and eternal spirit is the miracle answered. Further, may I share the words of the apostle John, "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in fatih". We are humbled by your parents example of faith, hope, love and strength -- they walk and live in faith. Within hours of walking away from your final resting site, they freely gave their love and hope to Luke's parents. And while you, Luke, Milton and others unite and take on new assignments, your parents will share a bond that only your little percious perfect souls could bring. Your life will forever be a source of faith in the Lord's plan and the healing power of comfort. always my loverddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12814499100255685763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-89725458647813277962007-10-21T00:51:00.000-06:002007-10-21T00:51:00.000-06:00I just returned from spending the day with your re...I just returned from spending the day with your remarkable family. Oh, how you are loved!<BR/><BR/>The best word I can think of to describe the proceedings of this experience, and of its conclusion today, is "grace." By grace, Jack came into the world. Isn't the creation of life a marvel? While visiting Portland last summer I attended an exhibit at the OMSI, all about the miraculous design of the human body. Normally I am quite squeamish when it comes to seeing anything on the outside that is supposed to be on the inside (I don't know how you do it professionally, Sarah) but I endured it, and came away extremely inspired by God's handiwork.<BR/><BR/>By grace, Jack was born into a loving family who has the fulness of the gospel. Aren't we lucky to be a part of such a valiant family? I thank God for letting me be a part of you. It is hard to believe, but so much of the hurt that exists in this world is generated within families. I am grateful that we love each other, and allow one another enough space to repent and forgive. Aren't we fortunate to have our individual testimonies of the restored gospel? Aren't we blessed to be bound by covenants that enable us to be together forever? I know Jack was born in and for the covenant.<BR/><BR/>By grace, Jack departed this world. His work was complete, and God called the physical suffering he endured sufficient for his life's test. He returned home spotless and triumphant, without his pure spirit being tainted by the world.<BR/><BR/>By grace, we are all redeemed from death through The Savior, our loving Elder Brother, Jesus Christ.<BR/><BR/>And finally, through it all, the usually wise-cracking Darren and ever spunky Sarah handled everything, their Abrahamic test, with dignity, humility, courage, hope, faith and grace. It truly was incredible, to see your strength in adversity. You make an incredible team. I hope I can be a true "mate" like that someday.<BR/><BR/>The Wells Ward chapel, like our hearts, was filled to capacity today. The entire First Presidency was seated on the stand. What a tribute to your grand little fellow. I was amazed that as grieving parents you could be so composed in such a setting, but the circumstances could not compromise your convictions. Thank you for your testimonies.<BR/><BR/>When Kent, Cameron and Sarah played a melody of primary songs, I must admit, I lost it a little bit. In particular, my heart was breaking for Kent, leaning in closer to the music stand, playing the violin so intently for his little grandson. Even now I become teary eyed thinking about it. I suppose the scene reminded me of my own Grandpa Nelson playing the violin for me when I was little. How special that memory is to me...and the thought that Kent wouldn't have that experience with Jack made me melancholy.<BR/><BR/>In spite of the sad circumstances, it was a remarkable day. Jack is an amazing person. I look forward to becoming reacquainted with him someday. Families are special. Life is fragile. The Gospel is true. Thanks for the reminder, Jack.libertyjedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13368682079533999109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-88950368542947396802007-10-20T21:55:00.000-06:002007-10-20T21:55:00.000-06:00Baby Jack Your funeral today brought more people t...Baby Jack <BR/><BR/>Your funeral today brought more people together to celebrate your life of 60 days than would show up to mine after 60 years. All members of the 1st presidency of the church were present - what a wonderful celebration Baby Jack. You are a very special boy. You will never be forgotten. You have brought tears of joy and tears of sadness to us all but we are all blessed and will try harder because of your short life on earth shared with us through your parents blog. Your parents are heroes and wonderful examples to us all for their love and resiliency and faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. <BR/><BR/>PS: Baby Jack, if you had anything to do with the Red Sox winning tonight, your grandpa Roger and the rest of the Red Sox Nation are grateful , thank you. <BR/><BR/>Tom and Jan and Familytomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06880995518214913831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-14436740598257551222007-10-20T02:59:00.000-06:002007-10-20T02:59:00.000-06:00PS- sorry, the Writ Wit is my husband's username.....PS- sorry, the Writ Wit is my husband's username... oh well. I'll be thinking about you today. <BR/>Love, Beth{B}dreamyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03257136520394629440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-77156931615746353752007-10-20T02:56:00.000-06:002007-10-20T02:56:00.000-06:00Howdy ho Sarah D! Miss Abbs clued me in on your l...Howdy ho Sarah D! Miss Abbs clued me in on your life, your little family and this here little blog. How I wish these were happier times for me to stop in and say hello... it's hard to know what to say, really. But just know that our prayers are with you and I know you will find comfort in the love you have for Mr. Jack, the love he has for you, and the love Heavenly Father has for all. <BR/><BR/>Take care. *B is for Beth (Borgia)The Writ Withttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14545566677691819349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-32169048104468557952007-10-19T22:16:00.000-06:002007-10-19T22:16:00.000-06:00I, too, am someone you don't know but have been fo...I, too, am someone you don't know but have been following your blog. Thank you for sharing your story. It has been a testimony builder to me and my family. We are so grateful for the Gospel and the fact that we know we will be with our loved ones again someday.<BR/><BR/>I know you will see Jack again and get to raise him. I also know that he is at peace now and he is watching you hoping you will be at peace too. "We come into this world crying while everyone else is smiling. We leave this world smiling while everyone else is crying!" <BR/><BR/>May you feel comforted and know that there are many people praying for you at this tough time.<BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/><BR/>Alayna WilliamsonAlayna Williamsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17439664627401742150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-2602384161854589382007-10-19T16:39:00.000-06:002007-10-19T16:39:00.000-06:00Dear Sarah and Darren,Everyone at work is thinking...Dear Sarah and Darren,<BR/>Everyone at work is thinking about you both and praying for you, so many hearts are sending thoughts in your direction.<BR/>You are loved, thank you for letting us share Jack and the love that you share as a family.<BR/>Blessed Be,<BR/>DawnettaDawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15063975387033798023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-49949088268183054292007-10-19T16:11:00.000-06:002007-10-19T16:11:00.000-06:00Sarah and Darren,We are so saddened by the loss of...Sarah and Darren,<BR/>We are so saddened by the loss of your sweet Jack. Thank you for sharing his life with us through your words and pictures. His little heart, though imperfect in this life, has touched so many other hearts. We love you and continue to pray for you!<BR/>Love,<BR/>The PreslarsKathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626149179910885681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1825020954513955431.post-63470733359275996162007-10-19T15:35:00.000-06:002007-10-19T15:35:00.000-06:00Sarah and Darren, My thoughts and prayers have bee...Sarah and Darren, <BR/>My thoughts and prayers have been with you this week. I know that your precious son will never be far. May your deep love for Jack heal your broken hearts as you look forward to your wonderful future together! Love, Carrie (Hinckley) Benzleycbenzleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16185193139816699268noreply@blogger.com